I was hesitant to add my story, but I know ex T has brought me up in her own therapy sessions. She didn't say this, but I suspect it was more than a one time thing. She worked hard to make it work but in the end I was the one that left. I think I hurt her, too. Not supposed to happen. Given the circumstances I'm glad she had a therapist to talk to about me. I hope my case was unique, though and not applicable to anyone else.