She asked me to get her coffee this morning. She asked so she could have me wait in line for her so we wouldn't waste more time. She came to the coffee shop to pay, but I bought it for her. It was only $3 and I have been playing a lot of gigs recently. I told her not to worry about it.
She talked about that in session. She drags me to coffee shops all the time if she's running late. Every time except for today, she buys and prepares her coffee and she buys me a water bottle. We just meet there so we can wait in line together. I didn't feel weird at all for buying and preparing her coffee this morning. She said that if she asked me to get her coffee before every session, that would be inappropriate and I would feel used. I laughed and said that I would only be bothered by the $3. If she wanted me to go down to a lounge and prepare her a coffee for free and asked me to do that before each session, after a few weeks, she wouldn't need to ask and I'd just automatically do it and not feel weird about it at all.
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