Inky, I don't know if what I am going to say is going to be helpful to how your feeling. I certainly don't want it to be more upsetting. I am very happy that these young woman got the validation about their abuse that they so deserved. That validation even has a face, their father's behind bars. I know a family, knew them for many many years. Had the Dad come do work in my house. A few months after the work was done he still didn't return a storm he broke and I called his home. His oldest girl answered and told me that she and her two sisters had been sexually abused since infancy. Dad had even admitted to performing oral sex on them when they were infants. He got 18 months in jail. That is all. The oldest was 19 when she told and the other two were minors. 18 months and he was released and married a young woman with M.S. because he is a classic pedophile so if he couldn't have girls he would have this 70 pound woman who looks like a child and needs total care. I knew these girls for years and I never saw the signs. I never saw the signs in him. His wife never knew. So when I read your story I am happy that the creep is locked up where no one else will ever be sexually abused by him. Hope this helps, hope at least it doesn't hurt more.