I'm confused in my feelings and need some input.

I'm not sure what love is anymore. To love a person that hates me, and its torture. To want them to love me or at least appreciate me. I read to love means to be selfless but in that same idea, doesn't it make you crazy to not receive that love back?

My mind tells me to just move on and not bother, but my heart keeps telling me to keep trying, but nothing changes. It's just pain and sorrow.

I know the good advice is to move on and get over it. I just keep thinking if I give it time then the person will see me how they used too. Am I just fooling myself?