Why if he's so pro life did he even have sex with you when you aren't married in the first place.....

But that aside....I know that my mother had an abortion....back in the days when german measels were a cause for serious concern if it happened in the beginning of the pregnancy.....to her dying day....she regretted that she had the abortion.......you may not think that it stick's with you what you are doing.....but then why do so many have so many serious issues after having an abortion because they didn't bother to really think HOW it would affect them?

To expect someone to support you who doesn't agree with you is totally ridiculous also. You want your pro-choice he's doesn't....you have to deal with that choice you are making on your own. Nothing about pro-choice comes with a guarantee of support when the other person believes in pro-life....or at least adoption.....it is your choice not his & it is a choice that you will live with for the rest of your life & that's not just the choice NOT to tell him.

How many people have you actually talked to who HAVE HAD abortions to truly know how it effects most of them in the long run?