First off thank you for the reply. Your response (as did everyone's) made me think.

To answer your question, yes this is the issue he brings up as a recurring problem for us. He says that he warned me in the beginning of our relationship that honesty was and continues to be a big must have for him.

I did hear him say that before we even decided to jump into a relationship together. I lied about going to a doctor's appointment and I made up texts pretending to be A to get answers. Both instances were wrong and I openly admit to that. I am also in therapy and speaking very candidly to my therapist about my issues.

I guess I do need to hear from others that I am not the only one to have issues that need to be addressed...

To answer your other questions yet he dated someone on and off again (mostly on again) who was married the entire time. In fact they originally slept together when she was just engaged to the man she eventually married. She did visit my best friend, move in right next door to him, visit his mother, hit on his brother, monitor his facebook account (deleting me as a friend almost immediately) and post their private info on her social media accounts.