I would think that he would spend the time with those he would be closest to?

I'm just about his age...I wouldn't have much desire to see some people who I barely knew...

Just remember if for whatever reason he decided otherwise...help him find a way to accomplish it...you don't necessarily have to spend more money...They can come to your town and stay in a hotel and see him one day...

I know you are a mother lion...I understand...just wanted to give you something to think about to let go of the anger that eats at you...