Oops, sorry, I didn't realize that you picked out the pillow yourself. Good job then! I'm glad your fiance got it for you, and I hope it gets here quickly. Don't you just hating waiting for stuff in the mail! At least it's nice to have a package on the way though... ! (I hate the waiting, but I love getting stuff in the mail, even if I have to send it to myself!)

And, sorry, I hope I didn't sound unsupportive. I just know that's something I regularly do (analyzing bits and pieces of information to try to figure a T out), and it doesn't seem to work so well for me. But, I totally agree with you about the pictures! I think that's a little different... they choose the pictures, they know that they're representing themselves and that it should be professional. If they choose something unprofessional, or can't manage to look non-scary (!) - that definitely says something (valid, imo) about them.

Hmm... I wonder if we could petition match.com to create a special "T-Match.com" spinoff! I really do love the idea. It could help so many people if done well!