Wait, I've always been told by straight person and gay person alike that sexuality is a tiny, if not the tiniest part of a person's persona-- and now I'm hearing the opposite, so you can imagine that's quite a shock to me! I'm aware I need intense therapy, I can't afford therapy, neither will I ask my parents to spend money on it or borrow money for it, I've bled them dry of money with therapy sessions all my life enough and I'm just starting to be able to pay them back. I'm sorry, I'm just floored to hear someone say that sexuality is a large part of someone's persona.