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Originally Posted by healingme4me
I probably flagged based upon personal experience, where overzealous attempts to reach me by phone have been based upon control tactics; stated unfamiliar with why in your own life, it would have been appropriate at that time.
I just got out of therapy, so forgive the questions if not remotely close, and your thread is discussing flags, unease and the like...with desiring emotional intimacy,(was that the word, from the beginning?)...do you find yourself as taken for granted as a pattern in your own life? Though not the one chasing, but as can be counted on to be there?
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Oh there is no control on his part. Just a genuine concern which is a good thing. I see now what you meant, it didn't apply to my situation
Now as about emotional intimacy And never being number one. I just find people who are not fully there for me for whatever reasons. I am attracted to people who are just my father. I left my SO of 8 years who loved me so much BUT has substance abuse issue so again not there fully, can't be. There is always something. With this guy it is being too busy etc etc eventually I do feel taken fur granted
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