It all depends how you feel about HIM being the father of your child.

In an ideal world, this wouldn't be an issue. However, this ISN'T an ideal world, and you are already thinking of having the abortion anyways, the only thing that is stopping you is disclosing it to him that you want to get one and see what he says or hide it from him.

My question here is, how do you feel about him? Are you ready to have a child? Do you think he'll approve? Do you expect that he'll oppose and you'll end up with an unwanted pregnancy? There's a lot of questions I could ask but the main one is: do you feel an abortion is right for you as a person going through it and do you care enough about your bf to let him be part of the decision making?