lol Ray you are going through exactly what i went through.....WENT is the key term.....my boyfriend would jump on me whenever he felt like it....lol and because im weak (roflmao) i gave in ( ) and gave it too him....but there were times where i wanted to do it (this happened alot ) and he didnt want to....i got hurt at first then i got angry....and then i told him why cant he rise to the accasion once in awhile and satisfy me when i jump on him ....well turns out he started doing just that....lol.....i heard its something men cant turn on and off like a lightswitch so im not sure how he does it.....but for the most part now we can get it done....only time though is some really weird times lol like 1 am this morning....ahhh said no...but also remember ....youve already hit the "honeymoon" stage of your relationship....its different now....this is the alrighty...i love you even if you turn the tv so fast i cant see what im watching kinda thing....alot of relationships die at this point...because one party or the other feels neglected....they feel the romance died out...when it hasnt....its just matured.....and thats probably why your boyfriend want to do it that much...sex isnt everything....however it does mean something...and make sure he knows he DOES need to satisfy you when you ask him to (not all the time...hes not your slave) but talk to him and say you understand not all the time...just maybe once in awhile ....like once a week kinda thing...lol personally for me...im asking for it almost everyday (oh yea .... )