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Originally Posted by prinssa
Whether to have an abortion or keep the pregnancy is not the question. I already made up my mind on that. That's nothing to be changed or even discussed.
I just wanted to know if it was best to let him know what I was doing even though he might be against it. The only reason I feel bad about hiding the pregnancy from him is because he has been a good person to me and I do feel bad about doing something behind his back without at least letting him know what's going on. I feel like if I have to be fair and let him know but then again I'm going to do something he's against so what's the point? I do not plan on being in a relationship with him any more so now I don't even see the point of telling him. I just hope the secret doesn't eat me up or something. He won't be happy about the abortion so why bother getting him upset.
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So, the way I see it, and correct me if I am wrong about this, is that you are distancing yourself from him because you can't face him anymore due to the guilt you feel. Why break his heart like this seemingly out of the blue? Just tell him and if he is a keeper he will understand.