I've been married for 15 years in August.

This does not mean that before my marriage I did not fall in and out of love and make choices I wish I would have never made.

I believe there is someone out there for everyone. I am lucky, my wife is a quite good book type and I am a loud mouth blabber jaw with some anger problems with tons of insecurity. She tends to be very passive with me and it works out good. If she gave into my swings, we would have never made it this long. I sometimes thank her for standing by my side.

So yes, we can and do fall in love, probably to much because we tend to be very fuzzy around the edges. But true love is another thing and I believe it lurks around some corner somewhere.