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Old Mar 26, 2015, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by ragsnfeathers View Post
Good morning Scarlet (for later when you wake up),

about your back. Not what you need at the moment, especially. I hope you were able to get to sleep finally and it feels better today.

I'm stll purse riding and still gonna ogle DBT T when she isn't looking.

When you read my responses to you it would help to know where I'm coming from. I responded to you because you were in such pain but also because from the start (and still), I instinctively like you, a lot, and feel comfortable with you, and knew enough to know that responding to you honestly would help even if I was off the mark sometimes. But my own reactions are different; I'm a loner and very inwardly directed and never miss people even when the situation calls for it.

I'm so glad that other people here get what you're going through on a more experiential level than I am capable of. Though if I was boss of the world none of you would have to experience this.

The point is, if I ever make things seem easier than it is, it's not a reflection on either of us. It's just me being off the mark due to where I'm coming from but I'm constantly learning from you.

You're strong, lady, and teaching me a lot.

Hugs and good luck today. I'll be thinking about you.

Rags
My back still hurts. Struggled with it all last night. I either pulled a muscle or it's stress. And then I was woken up by gardeners.

I appreciate honesty above all else. I would rather deal with the sting of truth then the betrayal of finding out a lie. But honesty really doesn't need to be mean.

I'm also a loner and very inward by nature. I was the child who hid behind their teacher's skirt. I would play on the playgrounds alone. I haven't really had that many friends. And I've had even fewer male friends. But "mother-figures", I've had an abundance of which I really believe is why I have so many conflicting traits (not saying that's a bad thing). But that's why I miss certain people. My family, eh. With them, they just need to choose to stay in or out of my life. There are only two friends from my past I really miss (and one is a guy!). But all the women I have looked up too...

Whether you have experienced what I'm experiencing or not, I want you to know that I really really appreciate your support. We don't have to be the same or even similar to benefit from one another. In fact, I find differences can often be just as important as similarities. And btw, I haven't found any of your replies "off the mark"
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