I haven't. His job has taken him away for most of the month. When he was home, he had to spend time getting ready to go again. I'd like to talk with him about it, but he wont be home until next weekend. He just gets this deer in headlights look when you try and talk about things. He says he doesn't understand how to empathize so he doesn't say anything. I actually do that too, when someone starts crying around me inside I freak out. I'm awful at consoling people. He was the first person I was ever able to be supportive of.