To be honest, I grew up being a bit condescending about people who fall in love to quickly. In the USA we are overly concerned with finding a mate -because so much of the media is geared towards that. There is hardly any movie that doesn't have the 'love' storyline intermingled with the main story.
In my family we do not fall in love easily. When we do, it is hard - clear and forever. I am proud of that. I have been a fool who has said," I love you". When I didn't. The soul knows what it knows - and you do not have to be in love by a certain age.
When it happens, you will know.
I have had 2 siblings not meet their 'true love' until their 30's. One in his 50's. I was in my 30's. (Although I did marry a man in my 20's because I thought it was the right thing to do, expected and so on - said 'I love you' to him for 10 years, after deciding love was apparently a myth. Of course, that ended in divorce. What an awful cage to be with someone from duty rather then from love. When it happened I was totally taken.
Love doesn't have an age, and I say - good for you for knowing your true self. When you fall, you will know it and be devoted.
Best of luck to us all.
__________________
BEST OF LUCK TO US ALL!
600 mg Trileptal (oxcarbazepine) 30 mg Atarax (hydroxyzine) 8 mg Trilafon (perphenazine)
Bipolar 1 - Borderline Personality Disorder - Generalized Anxiety Disorder - Eating Disorder
|