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Why can't I take my own suggestion? Why? I don't understand? Why? why? It should be easy...why isn't it?

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"Easier said than done" comes to mind as an answer to your questions. You are right, it is easier to look from the outside and add comments and suggestions to someone elses issues. Being so involved with our own problems, we are not always "seeing" how certain things apply to us. I think we have a kind of warped idealogy of who we are as we rarely see what others see in us. Taking stock of who and what we really are is not an easy task, so of course, applying our own rational ideas we have for others is much more difficult to do.

Wishing you well on your journey to self realization and self help. You seem determined and I believe you will get there.

Hugsssss
J