All of this is going to "feel" different with time. It's pretty intense right now. You can be honest & let him know that you like him but are not interested in a relationship and it would be unfair to lead him on.... I wish more men from my past would have shown me that type of honesty.. 
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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