So sorry you are dealing with this and that you're placing yourself in the role of martyr for your marriage.


You deserve better, I'm sure God only wants what's best for us.


Sorry to say but your husband doesn't sound like any kind of best to me.


I would never even entertain the thought of staying with someone who openly admits he can't choose me and only me.


Seems as if you are the only one taking your vows seriously in this marriage, doesn't look like he's been 100% yours at any point in your relationship.


Sure blame the other woman, most wives find that much easier to do than admit their husband can think for himself and is clearly choosing infidelity, but I personally wouldn't blame her, I would thank her for showing me my husbands true colors.


Then....

I would put him in a big box that says "Recycled Goods" with a bow on it, and send it off to her with a card that says "Good luck, he's your problem now"


Last but not least, I would go on my knees and thank God that I didn't subject myself to that man for the rest of my life, because no husband is much better than a part time husband in my book.