could you give her the posts that you have posted here?

i'm sorry that she hasn't been responding to anger so well... it might be something about the particular way that you express your anger that leaves her struggling... or it might be that she is unable to cope with anger more generally. anger is an emotion that people have, however, and it is an emotion that needs expressing at times. if you can't sort it out with your therapist it might well be that you would be better off with a different therapist.