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I think what makes your hubby decide he can still trust but 'think twice' next time is a different internal response than what we have.

For us it reinforces thoughts we already have.. that we shouldn't trust because we will get hurt, taken, used, etc. like you said.. we would never go buy off ebay again.

we don't see all the possibilites between Yes and No and No is safer. also requires less thinking and work so that makes it attractive to me, though I'm not lazy but I do take the easy way out often.

i think we have to listen hard to what we're telling ourselves when we say "don't trust" and then maybe we can figure it out. what do you think?