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Old Mar 28, 2015, 10:20 AM
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Your therapist probably knows you pretty well and should be able to help learn how NOT let this take it's toll on your emotional health. It's up to you, and what you want for your life, to figure out how to forgive yourself and keep moving toward better mental health. If you LET this destroy you... then you are in for some very very hard times.

You can take control (with support, while things are so difficult) of your thinking.
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