BUT EV, you are filling that need in you. You are doing what you need to do, by reaching out for support. I think its a myth that people don't need people. We are all interdependent on each other, no man is an island???? Its not always about warm and fuzzy hugs its about doing what we need to do to take care of our needs. OUr needs change as we grow!

Its ok to need! its a normal human response! When I beat myself up for needing help I am being abusive to myself.

Take care!