I'm definitely too unattractive to be a woman so I mostly self identify as matronly. Which is weird because I love the idea of pretty clothes, beautiful high heels, fancy hair, makeup, manicures, pedicures and all that froufrou stuff. It's just that in reality I feel so UNcomfortable and alien when I try, all I wear is serviceable clothes and shoes, natural hair, bare face, and try to be invisible and draw as little attention as possible. I definitely have boobs but not really curves, I'm more like a blob. Is blob a gender?