I had a situation once , a live in would not get out . In Florida the law said I had to go through the actual eviction process , But since I feared for my safety, the police made him leave. he was given 2 hours to pack his things and leave (Police stayed while he packed)

Regardless of your state law if you fear for your safety this person can be removed.

Your afraid now.. Why wait to get him outta your home, He knows the move is going to happen and he will most likely get worse the closer the day comes..

What does your husband think about this? Why is he allowing someone you fear to stay under your roof at all?