You're very lucky to have your adoptive mom. I would keep a healthy distance between you and your birth mom if I were you. Don't get sucked into the drama. Focus on leading a healthy life for yourself. My mom has mental issues and I barely speak to her. Whenever I do speak to her, she's bad mouthing my dad who raised me while my mom didn't want to be in my life. If your birth mom is as unstable as you make her sound, then just respond to her message by saying a few short words like thank you, and leave it at that.
Your real mom is your adoptive mom.
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