The desire in your heart to one day be a faithful and loving husband and father one day speaks volumes.

Use this desire as motivation to make a change for the better in your life. Consider moving to a new place to pursue further education or a career. Take care of yourself by eating well and exercising regularly and you will see the pounds drop bit by bit. Yeah I know...all this is so much easier said than done. But you have to believe in yourself that you can actually do it. Take small steps and set expectations that are
within your reach.

It is true that a lot of women feel they want to marry men that can provide them with some sense of financial security (and this statement works for all genders) but don't let this fear of potentially not being able to provide for a future wife prevent you from opening your heart. You may think a lot of time has been wasted already and you're already 31 and there isnt much time left. But this isn't true. Think deeply about that statement you made that you want to be a loving and faithful husband and father. Many men don't reach that level of thinking until much later in life or even never. I wish you good luck!


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