I guess T's are like parents in a way...which ever way they operate becomes "normal" for us...and if T was to ask me to meet her I would find it odd...only because thats not how she operates...Oh I think I'd jump at the chance to do anything with T, well in my head I would. I'm not sure if I'd really deep down want it to really happen. I guess I'd prefer my calls to be acknowledged more than an invite??? I guess its the day to day little important things that count the most to us?