Hi. It has been two years since my ex dumped me. I am dating somebody else and he is amazing, perfect and I am very, very happy to be with him. My ex was negligent, self absorbed and always acted vulnerable, until he got to a new point in life where he was considerably happy and had no use for my presence in his life. Prior to that, we had been in a long distance relationship for almost two years then. Things got rocky, I was mean to him and then he dumped me over email. I did not hear from him for all that while until 2 years later I decided to write to him, following several episodes where I'd have dreams about him, to tell him that all was great and to smoothen things out between us. He was communicative but just as self absorbed. Ever since that incident, the episodes of dreams got worse. Every night I dream about him , sometimes we're within a common social setting where he can see me and it hurts me that he doesn't ackowledge my presence, in some dreams (which started a little later) he starts to ackowledge my presene and it feels like we might be able to talk after all, but there is always an interruption. Of late I have been having dreams about trying to call him or sending him a message. It leaves me feeling weak and mixed up. Is there cause for concern? What should the ideal course of action be? Should I get closure? When I am conscious and awake, I yearn for revenge