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Originally Posted by A Little Lost
I said some horrible things but I have had it up to here. I can't repeat all the things I said to that ungrateful selfish traitor.
I know that after everything I said my ties to my children are severed permanently.
But I refuse to accept responsibility I BEGGED FOR HELP and I begged for understanding in return for which I have been abandoned, the fear that has been with me all my life is finally come to fruition.
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Hi, I know it feels bad to have nobody there who is willing to sit down, listen, and understand what you are going through.
After reading your post, these three paragraphs caught my eye.
It's not very clear to me exactly why your children completely stopped talking to you. Regardless of your reasons for being pushed to the brink of doing so, maybe your words have caused them to think poorly of you or to be hurt - thus leading them to stay away from you? (this is all guesswork)
This might not be what you're looking for, but I found this article to be extremely helpful.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...ective-apology
Sometimes, in order to fix things, we have to make the first move. Even if it wasn't our fault.
I hope it will be of some use to you, if not now, for another time in the future. Hang in there
