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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Why don't you ask your T if there's any issues that you can't discuss with him? If he says nothing is off limits, then ask if the topics about sex are. If he says sex isn't off limits, then ask if a client has ever had transference towards him and how did/would he deal with it. If you are satisfied with the answers, then it's most likely safe to open up about.
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I asked him is there any topic I cant discuss and he said I can talk about anything.
I dont think he would answer about other clients.
Everytime I tried to talk about it he all the time repeated about boundaries and that he will never let me touch him and that nothing could ever happen between us. I know it and its annoying if he says it everytime I try to talk about my feelings, I even told him that I heard it thousand times but I just want to tell him how I feel but I cant if he all the times says- nothing like that could ever happen. It makes me feel that he doesnt want to hear it, it makes me mad and I feel so embaresing when he reacts this way.
Some time ago he asked me how I would like to touch him etc but I never answered. Now he avoids from this topic.
Okay I will ask him can I talk about sex if I could get these words out of my mouth.