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Originally Posted by lizardlady
It is definitely possible for a caregiver to actually care about a client. Most people who go into a "caring" profession do so because they like/care about other people.
Am not sure what you mean about seeing a client outside the hospital. If you mean in a professional capacity it might be possible. It would depend on if the caregiver provides services outside the hospital. If you mean seeing a client in on a personal basis, most caring professions have rules against that.
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i live in holland, so i thought the rules would be a little wider. i wasn't sure about it, but there are so many ways in social activity where you can meet eachother. for example:
- facebook.
- out door, by coincidence: parties, studies, restaurants, groups etc.
i don't really have my life back on track right now,
for example i just don't have a school and don't go anywhere except gym, because im actually kinda afraid i feel out of place fast. when i just join somewhere, no idea either where i should go, because i feel weird around people.
im afraid i will never see this guy again, because we were like, i don't know, okay. im not sure if it was because i was all loveydovey around him, but i really trusted him.
i know circumstances can change when a person feels "love" for another, but it might be my lonelyness and i can discuss it though i don't know how, because i don't want him to know anything about it. maybe he doesn't even want any contact with me and he gets bothered with "YEE, NOW YOU CAN TALK WITH JARA AGAIN, HOORAY, A WIDER VERSION OF YOUR JOBCONTRACT"
i feel emberassed alot about the diary i gave him before i they dismissed me out of the hostel (it's not a hospital, more some mental health clinic, like that's the reason i posted it here, i mention just to be sure). ofcourse when you're in "love" or like someone alot you can be really clumsy, but this went a way too far.. tho "i haven't been there for no reason, and they'll understand" i keep saying too myself. no one knows what i wrote in there, i'd love it to ask someday haha.
so yeah, i wondered, to sum it up: "1. do the rules differ in different countries? 2. is it against the rules to see someone outside and just, i don't know, talk with the person? because it sounds very normal to me. 3. would it be allowed to give an answer on facebook?"