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Originally Posted by kraken1851
No worries! I didn't think it was directed at me directly. This is just how our thought processes work  .
I, personally, think that the problem was entirely on your t's end. I haven't read what you wrote about her previously, but the way I see it, as a professional she should be capable of dealing with whatever a client says and does. It doesn't mean that she cannot decide to terminate the client, but there are professional ways of doing this. What she chose to do was not a professional reaction. Which makes me think that something was fundamentally wrong on her end. It could have to do with counter transference, but we can only speculate on that.
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You know, counter transference could definitely be a reason. It's one reason that I don't have any facts to refute it. I'm not saying that's the reason why, but it could be. And it could have been negative or positive counter transference. If this is the case, my guess would be negative. It would explain the sudden changes.
Thank you. I'll keep that idea in mind. At least that allows me to consider having some empathy for her.