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Old Mar 30, 2015, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted by RTerroni View Post
I agree, but I did mention how sexuality could be a choice that is not entirely your own choice but not necessarily something that you are purely born as. For instance things that happened to you when you were younger may have forced you down the path (which you can now no longer leave) which I believe may have been the case with me and being Asexual, but that still doesn't mean that you are born that way because of things had happened differently you may have gone down another path. If you were completely born that way then you would have been pre-determined to go down a certain path regardless of what may have happened when you were younger.
Back to your original topic, THIS is why people get mad at you. You have your own definition of a sexuality that is entirely different than what most people think, and it's a confusing one at best. Like I and others have said before, asexuality is extremely hard to define and hard for others who aren't asexual to understand. And again, people with asexuality can get offended if their sexuality is questioned or defined improperly.
Thanks for this!
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