Dan, that is a long time to volunteer with one group! It sounds very awkward for you to resign given how many family members are in it.

I still haven't decided what to do. Someone asked me for something today and I sent them to someone else. I may try to finish out my term as a fairly inactive board member.

I am worried that if I quit, it will be awkward just being a plain old member. I don't want to be a board member, but I do want to be a member, even if I am not that active. The person I am having the conflict with is going to be there long after all of our terms expire...