Welcome to PC!

That was a huge step she took in telling you...hopefully she won't feel violated regarding the dairy...then again maybe she wanted you to see it...hard call...

I'm glad you are reading up on SI...as you will find SI for a lot of us has to do more with coping...making the pain we feel inside phsyical...distracting the pain from within. There are many reasons...the actual act of cutting (in my opinion) is not the serious stuff...it is finding out what's going on inside...

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