Waitingict, I am sorry to hear about your intimacy issues. If your wife is your age, she may have had a decline in her sexual desire. I would try to get her to go to her doctor and see if she may be having hormonal or other conditions that may be getting in the way. Since you have tried marriage and sex counseling then I would at least look at the medical side of this. I hope that this helps.

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