hi waitingict
well it sounds like you would be a great husband. it would be interesting to hear her side. acting as you described would indicate that she doesnt share the same feelings for you. the question to ask what are you not giving her that she wants? what is missing? what has changed from when she did respond to you? this is the type of stuff that would best be discovered in counseling. i would say give it another try. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome