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Is it possible that he attend a session with you and your mental health professional? Sometimes when they hear from someone that is not attached (a professional) to the family - it has more power. If your father refuses to do this - then you do what is best for you. If it were my father - I would refuse to see him because he is crossing a HUGE line by sharing your information about your struggles.
I am so sorry this is happening to you. I'm sure it also hurts that your father will not show more respect for you. I hope you are getting support for this issue.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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