I hope this person is out of your life sooner rather than later. I have been "stuck" before, because of financial reasons, with someone I would never pick out for a friend... who is mean and arrogant. Try not to let them suck the life out of you. Try to figure out a way to view this person in a different way - until they are no longer in your life. You will never change them.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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