Thank you, I feel somewhat better but slightly like a whiner. I mean so many people have been through so much more.

My younger sister who is also showing signs of bi-polar is back in town. I feel responsible for her because I helped to raise her and she came by my house to get her stuff that she's been storing here and made a big mess and kept mouthing off to me when I wasn't doing anything to her whatsoever and finally I told her she needed to stop blaming everyone else for her problems. I know I shouldn't have said it but she just keeps complaining and whining about everything under the sun and nothing you do even remotely calms her. Either she's talking a mile a minute and not eating and not sleeping or she's upset and nothing will calm her. IDK what to do. Then after I said that she said that my ex was a good man when he wanted to be and basically that I deserved what happened to me so I asked her to leave until she was calm. Is she right? Did I deserve all that? Is it possible to deserve being treated that way?