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Old Mar 31, 2015, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by maara View Post
. After she said she really loved me, she also said that she didn't say it before, when I was child, because she did not want to sound fake. There you go, this proves she did not love me. Even though I knew it, she finally said it herself.

I was analyzing that conversation for a while and it finally hit me. And for the first time in many years it did not hurt as I have been grieving this loss since I started therapy. I even feel a relief that I finally heard it from her.
I appreciate how difficult healing the wounds of the past is difficult for everyone involved. However, I don't quite understand how not wanting to sound 'fake' proves your inference.
Depending on her life experiences it could just be often it was said but truth was questionable? Or was said in habit, placating, to her a meaningless expression. Of course it could mean what you are wanting proof of. However, rather than stew, why not ask her what she meant about it?

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