An acquaintance of mine called me out on playing the victim card tonight.

I feel like I keep whining on here about the same things, but I DO feel like a victim (part of the problem is depression). How else do you explain all of this:

1. 3 car accidents totaling my cars in less than 4 years, none of which were my fault, all unavoidable.
2. Losing both parents within 9 months of each other, both were 59.
3. Losing another good friend 2 months after my mom.
4. 3 horrible bosses in a row (I had co-workers from all three places together at a party recently, talking about how bad each of them were, trying to see which one was the worst - it wasn't just my opinion.)
5. Boyfriend of nine years left me for a married woman, they ended up getting married. His commitment problems seemed to go away when it came to her.

I can keep going on, these are just highlights. Don't mean to make it sound like no one else has stuff either. How in the world am I supposed to lose the "victim"mentality?