so my brother is coming to live with me in a month or so..
hes a good lil brother
thing is he doesnt know that i actually changed my surname
i changed it from my fathers name back to its original which was mothers maiden name (god i hope that makes sense)
anyway i changed it cos my father was my abuser (did i put the trigger)
ok anyway so i havnt told my family cos it wood crush my mom
my mom has never supported me
so what do i do now
my brother will surely find out now that he is gonna share my house with me
argh!
do i sit down and tell him
and do i actually say about the abuse
i dont think he wood take that well
do i tell a lie

what would you all do
please if u have any advice let me know

and i know yall will prob say tell him
but please do i tell him the truth or a lie
knowing he wont accept the truth as reality and he hates fights or negative comments about family members
and he was/is dads fav as in was a real father to him

argh!!!