Hi YIsMyMindBlank

Thank you very much for sharing this with us.

I hear what you are saying and I don't think you are being put in a good situation here.

This sentence above all sentences really stands out for me:

"Like I hate being thrown under the bridge and left to die, because I'm the guy.

This isn't helpful it's damaging!"

Hell yeah!

Of course it's damaging and it's not right that this happens to you.

I really think people have become very dependent on you to just rely on you to be there for them but there's just something very wrong with this picture -

WHY AREN'T THEY HERE FOR YOU?

It's not right and I don't think they should do this to you.

Please communicate this with them.

"Just saying this is my personal experiences first hand and I have many more but I have to go to bed night."

You've earnt the right to say this.

We base what we speak / write on our experiences and how we interpret them.

Please communicate what you need now with your significant others.