The hardest thing about getting into relationships for me is the crushing guilt I feel in regards of not telling my significant other that the reason I can't do sexual stuff/have mental problems is because of the abuse I've suffered from in the past...

I was wondering if anyone else has had this problem and what they did about it. I just don't know if I want to tell her or not; because in reality I know she wouldn't be disgusted, but my mind keeps telling me that.
Ugh!