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Originally Posted by hvert
Can you limit the amount of information you share with him? That sounds like a very difficult position for you to be in. I don't think there is anyway to make him stop gossiping if he's so intent on doing it despite knowing how you feel. It's really too bad that he doesn't take your concerns seriously.
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I already greatly limit the amount of information I share with him. He thinks he gets it because he can observe that I have mental illness. But he knows next to nothing about the reasons for my illness because I have deliberately told him next to nothing about it (a lot of it has to do with my childhood experiences with him). He shares his observations regarding my mental health with people who have no ability to provide any constructive advice whatsoever. There's no good reason for it and I want it to stop.