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The word "should" in many cases does not work - even with family. I spent decades thinking my father "should" - it never happened. I started to heal when I realized he never "would". Glad you are here talking it out because you do have understanding with us. You will have to find to deal with this. Again, so sorry this is happening to you!!!!
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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