Thanks, Direction. I have their home numbers (and mobile for one of them), but I only used them to arrange rehearsals. I've never met up with any of them outside of rehearsals (although some of the others have - the two I'm going to miss most are good friends, and by the sound of things they spend most of their time at each others' houses ) and I don't think that's going to change. The only thing we've got in common is music, really.